If the misogynist in your life is trying to claim women can’t serve in combat because they can’t carry a dude, kindly point them in the direction of this article about how people in the military learn the fireman’s carry.
when i was in basic training we had to learn how to do carries
a girl MUCH MUCH MUCH smaller than me was able to pick me up in a fireman’s carry
…i had to give her a piggy back ride cause i couldn’t lift her
so if you really think this shit is about size and strength between genders, kindly fuck off